INNER LIGHT: Why you should always be yourself

Honorina Mashingia

Daily life and struggle to be there has been a life point for so many of us. Life is not a static. It is a process, so nobody should be glued where he or she is.

The biggest question is that. Why struggle then? I sincerely don’t see why spend much time fighting for things that do not have any effect if just properly managed.

This kind of struggle has been really a challenge for most people and it has come out with many reactions, which bring in a lot of problems.

People have changed completely. They want to compete for everything. How? They want to have everything their friends have.

If it’s a new car you too want to have the same. If it’s a new dress you also want to have it. If it’s a new big house of a certain look you as well want to have the same.

It’s fine, but was it your plan to live that way?. Do you think those are your priorities at a time? Why can’t you just take time and work on things that are top on your list of priorities?

Life of competition is always not good and it brings in unnecessary frights and unwanted struggle for one. Just rest to who you are and you will be happier.

The bad side of this kind of life when your competition fails to touch the sky one creates another style of living artificial life. You are now portraying a life which is not yours completely but for the sake of your reputation you find yourself struggling to show the rest that you are too having that kind of a high and good life. As a result you just slowly die with a tie on your neck. Ohh my gosh! Just rest to who you are and you will just be valuable for as much as you deserve.

This struggle is too broad dear readers and it touches all angles and most people are caught in the trap of this thing. There are those who real even wish to wear others personality simply because they want to look like so and so. Mind you! Your personality will forever remain to be yours and the copied one won’t fit you and instead people around you will always see you as a fun character. Just rest to who you are. In the course of resting to who you are wise people will see you and believe me they will see something good in you.

Believe me or not, there is no one of us who were created empty. All of us have special and unique things in us. If only smartly worked out, there are billions of treasures in all of us. The only bad side of it is when everybody wants to be like somebody else.

Why? He too does not have the values you have. He too at a point wishes to be like you, but simply because he won’t let you know this, you cannot know how you too have wonderful things in you. We should sincerely learn to rest on who we are.

I strongly believe that all God have created are just wonderful on its own way. I.e. Extremely good. If only we agree on this. We should start seeing value in our self and create that sense of self acceptance. Dear readers, it’s a greatest gift of all to learn on how to love yourself. Believe me there are no any other gift as big as loving yourself. A true love begins with you first. If you cannot love yourself then, how hard to love someone else.

When saying loving yourself I don’t mean applying too many lipsticks, eye shadows, angel faces etc, Noo. I real mean to have that sense of self acceptance, valuing yourself, building in your inner confidence, and especially that sense of I can and other many. Knowing the inner you first, and after that you transfer to the outside. Here then you should too look beautiful in a natural accepted ways. You should then consider eating well, dressing up well, go for proper make ups and finally hanging around with people you love the most. Its health to your daily being.

You won’t forget proper shelter; laughing, praying and life will sincerely reward you. Just be yourself. and rest to who you are.